Becareful with oral sex

MANY who say oral sex is the safest activity than other types of intimate relationships. For couples who are not bound, oral sex is often used as a choice because it will not result in pregnancy. But, whether oral sex was safe, especially from the risk of sexually transmitted diseases?

For most couples, oral sex is usually performed as part of the heating or foreplay. Many men who liked this activity because oral sex can burn their fantasies to achieve satisfaction. Men usually feel a higher pleasure in receiving and giving oral sex. From several studies, the men admitted more often want oral sex compared with women.

Sex consultant, Dr. Ferryal Loetan, ASC & T, MMR, SpRM, M. Kes, assessing oral sex should be done carefully. Performed oral sex on a woman allows a man contracting the disease, as well as activities performed oral sex on her man.

"In the mouth there is a lot of saliva that can transmit disease. For in the human saliva, there are some germs and bacteria. Similarly with all kinds of fungus, usually attached to the human body. They can cause disease when we do oral sex, "Ferryal said.

Danger will threaten oral sex if done without caution and without the body hygiene. When receiving oral sex disease, they can spread it to the giving of oral and vice versa.

For example, the mouth and lips are chapped experience may invite the risk of contracting the disease to the recipient of the giver of oral sex oral. Other diseases that can be transmitted through oral sex among them, Chlamydia, genital herpes, gonorrhea, hepatitis B, HIV and genital warts (HPV).

If you like oral sex and can not change this habit, then that must be noted is to maintain health and hygiene equipment your genital Thus, the general signs of disease associated with early symptoms of PMS can be identified early.

The only way if you still want to perform oral sex in way fellatio (oral sex on male organs), is to use a condom without lubrication (or eliminate lubricants). Whereas for cunnilingus (oral sex on female organs), your partner should use protection against tooth. This tool is a square piece of latex placed over the vulva to avoid direct contact or exchange of body fluids. (C11-08)


Is it dangerous to swallow sperm? Can oral sex be done more often? Is it true that most men like oral sex? Read the answer in this article.


Like the missionary position, maybe the style of oral sex, including sex in the classic style that has been known since ancient times. Whether for fun or done as a couple variations to overcome boredom, oral sex as much fun. But not a few women who are reluctant to perform oral sex for reasons of shame, disgust, or fear of danger to health.

Performed oral sex on the penis is sometimes ended with ejaculation in the mouth to swallow sperm. This is not something dangerous. The sperm itself is a product of male sex organs (testes) whose condition is very clean and sterile, as long as the couple was not infected with venereal disease. There's even a mention experts in sperm contained a number of good protein.

Each activity should be done to make love to both of satisfaction. So no matter if oral sex is very often, as long as you and your partner enjoy it. In pregnant women love this style can also be done, as long as the reproductive organs of women and men in good health.

Perform oral sex you can also choose if you want to quickly reach orgasm. Massage and warm sensation that is felt in the clitoris is guaranteed to make you 'explode'. So do not hesitate to ask the couple took turns performing oral sex.

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ATHENA, TUESDAY - Nine women arrested for prostitution involved. But actually they were arrested for participating in oral sex contest.

According to police, on Monday (14 / 7) or Tuesday (15 / 7) Indonesia time, this strange contest held at Laganas beach, on the southern island Zakynothos. According to the Daily Mirror, these women, generally the English, came on holiday to the island did become one of the main objectives in Greece.

Then, when they came into a bar, they offered a part in the race for oral sex and that they are paid. Action was also recorded and is scheduled to run through the internet.

But in the middle of the action took place, the police came and arrested them. Certainly not fair that only the women were arrested, but the man who became the object of competition also arrested on charges of encouraging

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Sex Secret Emperor of China....

Na on Nei Jing Hua, medical book written more than 2,000 years ago, is still a reference for practitioners of traditional medicine of China, or Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM). The book reveals the secrets of the emperor.

It had kept secret a long time to find a secret journal (1974) in the tomb of Emperor in Chang Sha Ma. At the opening of a journal written on bamboo parchment related sexuality. What are the secret?

There are seven things that must be avoided and the eight important things that a harmonious sexual life.

1. Pain due to rash and rude attitude during sex will cause pain in internal organs. So, slow course.
2. Symptoms of a cold sweat during sex. Be careful, there may be a physical problem.
3. Fatigue due to excessive sexual activity.
4. There is no power of sex or erectile dysfunction.
5. Attitudes to intimidate and anxiety.
6. Coercion or sexual intercourse without the consent of the couple would cause something unpleasant, especially for female couples.
7. Rash or too fast is an unpleasant condition for both partners. This must be avoided.

Here are eight things that should be maintained either:
1. Maintain Qi (energy). After getting out of bed, do exercises to strengthen the spine / back and relaxing the body back. Train the anus so that the energy for contraction in downward flow.

2. Swallow saliva. Regularly swallow their own saliva and make sure your breath and stay calm.

3. Take the time to have sex and does warm-up to both parties feel comfortable.

4. Accumulation of energy. During sex, couples should relax the body and the back of her anus contract.

5. Sexual intercourse can not force, must be soft / slow.

6. Penetration must be held gently and slowly. Sometimes, stop for a moment so that couples can enjoy the sensation of a woman completely delicious.

7. When she almost reached the climax, the man must bend my back to back. After ejaculation, the penis should not be revoked immediately.

8. The penis must be withdrawn before the fully softened and should be cleaned after that.

Sex secrets of ancient China as stipulated in the Nei Jing Hua include the following:
- Both partners must be adequately stimulated.
- Do not have sex if one does not want that.
- Washing and bathing after sex.
- Sex life should run mediocre.

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The Spot of Sensitive Women

Success or failure of two beings reaches orgasm during lovemaking, starting from a reliable partner whether or not to play his role. If not, just sex he gets shallow. Where the dots "like" it?

Mystery zone "source of pleasure" when making love or someone more familiar with the G-spot always attracts men and women. G-spot is one or several sensitive points which are still a mystery to most men. The reaction is usually caused quite a man wants to find again the source of these pleasures.

The letter G in the G-spot comes from the name of a doctor. Ernst Grafenberg who discovered it in the 1950s. According to the doctor, the G-spot on a woman's body lies in the Miss Genie the wall top. The area was swollen and usually will produce good responses, so that in some women cause orgasm.


Reaction to the G-spot stimulation, according to the Grafenberg, as written Joel D. Block, Ph.D., at the book Secrets of Better Sex, varies widely. There are some women are very sensitive, too sensitive, or not sensitive at all. So, should a woman when touching sensitive parts.

One example is always a happy couple after the husband and wife relationship is Dody and Ranti. Although they are blessed with a child, only this time enjoy sex. Before a child, though often making love (ML) had never had an orgasm. In fact, many times. According to Dody, 35-year-old man was, he realized his wife was satisfied after five years of this marriage. "Before I never thought of. Play it plays it," said a bank employee this red plate.

But, more Dody, after he read an article of sex, there is a desire for sensitive areas and the G-spot his wife. "If you have been hit by several points, the movement can not control my wife," he said. Dody's words were justified his wife without hesitation. The woman who now works at a foreign insurance company was so pleased when the wall was touched by her husband's pleasures. "I had a great orgasm when my husband played his finger on the G-spot," he said. It also makes her one of these children had never complained about a love affair with her husband.

Before you dig in and start looking for G-spot, remember that your brain and your partner must make a mind filled with love and compassion from the center of orgasm. If you can let your mind freely without feeling overwhelmed, he certainly achieved a very expected pleasure.

Curiosity is the nature of every human being. Similarly, in matters of sex. Almost all men wondered, in fact at the point of it's similarity to women crazy when touched? Now, before you have an adventure to find her erotic zone, make sure you are both in good condition, clean and full of love.

Here are some points that make women become ready to fight when he was "on strike".


1. Thigh
does not be rude when touching the part that is filled with nerve. Let your fingers dance lightly over the skin of charm.

2. Rear knee
can not be denied if the area behind the knee into the arena was full of "surrender" themselves women. Because, at this location, all nerve ends in the back of the knee.

3. Buttocks
convey your message signals when I want to have sex with a partner. Addressed your hands on this area and make sure the he felt the pleasure. For you know, the most sensitive area is at the lower end of the spine and the folds of a meeting between the thighs and buttocks. Perform a variety of movements to provide a different sensation.

4. Neck
just blowing air around the neck to make your wife swayed. Especially if your hands or lips "play", moose breathe sounds. Grasp the neck gently with one hand and the other hand stroking it. Such treatment would make him surrender meekly.

5. Ear
Whisper romantic words in your partner's ear. Tell me if you want romantic passion with her. Do kiss erotic possible until your wife's back. Take off and see if he moved the body of the erotic.



6. Feet
All day walk to call attention to foot massage. Pamper around the foot, starting from the palm, fingers, until the heel, either way foreplay with a partner.

7. Breasts
this is the first to remember the man from a woman's body. In addition to beautiful shape, this location is very sensitive to stimuli. His form was also frees you to do a touch of any kind. Find out whether your spouse would rather you do it with a soft or a little rough.

8. Wrist
it seems strange that this is one sensitive point woman. But maybe that's why fashion experts suggest that women put perfume on around her wrist. Therefore, there is a sensitive pulse there. He'll be impressed if you explore this area.

9. Genitalia
This places an unnecessary argument. In the area of sexual feelings are the most powerful women when stimulated. Once met his place, even the softest touch that will give a pleasant sensation and unusual. If not met, as usual, was quite an exciting find it?

10. Lips
this is the most sensitive point in a woman's body. Do not miss this section just because you are too eager to do exploration in other parts... Therefore, a woman's lips can be manipulated in such a way so that she will feel excited, stimulated, and loved at the same time... Kissing lips to give everything a woman needs when making connections. Especially when having sex. If you've reached your peak in a kiss, feel the sensation of pleasure. Incredible!

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Masturbation Information

Techniques for men and women both.

Female Masturbation Techniques

Introduction
Ok ladies, let’s have a look at some different techniques that will work to get you off. A great many of women can only attain orgasm through manual stimulation. There are a few who can achieve orgasm through intercourse alone. Anyway, here are some techniques that might add a little variety to your masturbation play
Direct clitoral stimulation
Rolling, Rolling, Rolling – ok, for this technique you need to place your thumb and forefinger around the clitoris and gently roll it in between your fingers. You can start off with a slow gentle roll and then gradually pick up the pace and the pressure according to what feels good to you.

Circular Rub – I generally find that if I am in a hurry this technique works wonders. Just take your first two fingers from either hand and place them over top of you clitoris. Then begin moving them in a circular motion over top of the clitoris. You can vary the speed and pressure easily with this technique. I find that if I use this one I can reach orgasm in under a minute. If you want to change the feel slightly just add your favorite lube and everything becomes very slippery.
Tapping – This technique is a little different and it’s not for everyone, as with anything some things will work for some people and not for others. For this one I use my left hand to pull the pussy lips back out of the way so that the clitoris is very exposed. Then with my index finger on my right hand I lightly begin tapping the fingertip gently on the clitoris. It results in a very delicious sensation that builds to a point where you just can’t hold it back anymore.
Combination – There is nothing that gets me wetter faster than using a combination of both hands. Have your fingers from one hand playing with your clitoris, stimulating it however you wish. Take the other hand and place two or three fingers inside your vagina and begin thrusting. Basically you’re simulating intercourse with this action and it works rather nicely in tandem with the clitoral stimulation and can bring you to a rocking orgasm!
Waterworks
Water is your friend. It can be used in a multitude of ways to get you off! Try these out. Please avoid sending strong streams of water directly into your vagina as that can be potentially dangerous.
Running Water – I’m sure you’ve all stuck your hands under the water flow when you’re filling the tub for your bath to check the temperature of the water. Now, just imagine that same water flow landing on your clitoris. It’s a wild feeling. This is the first way that I ever got off, before I even realized what it was that it was doing. The only thing you need for this one is some time and a bathtub. Hopefully your bathtub will be shaped properly so that you can slide your butt down against the end of the tub and position yourself so that the water flow will land on your clitoris. It’s best to start of with a lighter water flow and gradually work up to a higher pressure flow. Make sure that you test the warmth of the water before sticking your pussy under it, wouldn’t want to get scalded in that area!
Water Spray – this on is just a bit of a variation on the one above. In this instance just place your thumb or finger over the faucet and then direct the spray so that it falls directly on your clitoris.
Shower Massage – this is a great one if you’ve got one of those Shower Massage devices because you can pick whether it pulses or comes out in a steady spray. There are many options. You’ll have to experiment with them to see what works best for you. Here again, you can adjust the pressure and temperature of the spray to whatever you’d like them to be. I’ve found on occasion that using cold water produces a different feeling than the warm water.
Jacuzzi Jive – If you’re lucky, you will have private access to a jacuzzi and you’ll be able to take advantage of the water flow from the jets! This is one to be careful with since the flow of water from the jets has considerably more pressure behind it than that from the shower or bathtub. My recommendation is to start a fair distance back from the jets and then move yourself closer to find the pressure level that works for you. All you need to do is position yourself so that the water flow lands directly on your vagina and clitoris. Once you’ve found the right spot let yourself go and enjoy the warm water and indulge in a little fantasy.
Good Vibrations
Vibrators are handy little gadgets and in my opinion every woman should have one tucked away in a drawer for those moments when you really need it. Vibrators are primarily used for clitoral stimulation but can also be used vaginally or anally if you prefer. You can try different combinations out to see which you like best.
Clit Rub – Vibrators are great for clitoral control since you can change alter the speed of the vibration easily and bring yourself to the edge and then slow it down again. Pressure is a key factor as well. You may also want to try rubbing the vibrator over your inner thighs and around your pussy lips and even up over your nipples. Masturbation doesn’t have to be confined to just the clitoral area.
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Male Masturbation Techniques
Single fist
The use of a single fist is perhaps the most basic male masturbation technique. You simply wrap your fingers around your erect penis firmly and slide your hand up and down over your cock. This technique produces the most contact between your hand and your penis.
Fist over Fist
In this technique you can alternate fists, sliding first one and then the other from the base of the penis to the tip. In this manner you can strike up a similar rhythm that approximates the single fisted method. To add a sligthly different twist, try moving one fist upwards and the other downwards.
Two fists together
If your penis is of a fairly large size, you may be able to place both of your fists on your penis at the same time and slide them back and forth on your penis in unison.
Finger Techniques
There are many variations of the finger techniques which usually only vary by position of a finger or thumb and can depend on the firmness of the grip. Here are a few examples for you to try. Experiment with different combinations to find what works best for you.
Two Fingers
This method generally uses just the thumb and forefinger and can be substituted for the single hand. You can stroke the shaft from base to tip or merely run move the thumb and forefinger back and forth over just the head of the penis
Thumbs and Fingers
Encircle your penis with the thumb and two fingers from each hand. Then stroke up and down, varying the speed and the pressure until you reach orgasm.
Vaginal Simulations
There is nothing better than placing your penis inside a pussy. Although sometimes this doesn't always work out as you'd like. These are some techniques in which you can fantasize that you are pumping into a pussy. Try them out and see which ones you like best.
Hot Dripping Pussy
Make sure that your hands are well lubricated with a water soluble lubricant. The slicker the better in this case. Grasp your penis and try to simulate the feelings you get when a pussy has a tight grip on your penis and is squeezing and releasing it spasmodically.
Insertion Objects
There are a great many different objects that you can thrust your penis into that will simulate vaginal intercourse. The best thing is that most of them are readily available. Toilet paper rolls are one idea. Cutting a hole large enough for for erect penis to fit through in a watermelon or cantaloupe is another. Experiment, experiment, experiment!
Liver
Ok, I know that this one might sound a little bit gross and repulsive but check it out. Have a good look the next time you buy raw liver. The texture and flexibility of it makes it a great substitute for the real thing. You could probably even warm it up a little before wrapping it around your penis.
Pillowing
In this instance, it's a little tamer than the liver, you place a couple of pillows down on the bed or location of your choice and insert your penis in between them. Then thrust your penis in and out simulating intercourse.
Water Techniques
Cool, clear water. It's definitely good for what ails you. Here are a couple of ideas for you for the next time you're in the shower or taking a bath
Falling Water
This method can be accomplished in a number of ways. Place yourself so that the water will spray over your penis. This can be accomplished by positioning yourself near enough to the tub faucet, the shower nozzle, or even a garden hose if you don't mind the cold water..
Shower Head
This one can be a lot of fun. I know I sure enjoy it as a female. You need a hand-held shower head for this one. Direct the spray at the backof your penis, the spot where the head and the shaft meet. This can produce some very pleasurable feelings.
Soapy Shower
The shower is always a great place for masturbation, it's warm and comfy. A great place to fantasize as you stroke your lathered up penis until you cum.
Belly Scratch
First of all you need to get into a comfortable position on your back. Make sure you've got lots of lube and make your penis very slick. Then curl the tips of your fingers lightly around the top half of the shaft and stroke the full length of your penis. The lower half of the penis will rub against your belly, hence the scratching.
Playing Ball
In this one, you get to scratch at your balls. Gently scratch your fingernails over the surface of your balls. Alternate between doing this and massaging gently around the area surrounding each ball individually. Try tossing them around gently allowing them to roll slightly in the scrotal sack. You can also massage the spot beneath your balls at the cleft above your asshole.
Squeeze Techniques
In these techniques you get to put the squeeze on. Enjoy!
Thigh Squeeze
Please bear in mind that this particular method can be painful and not all men will be able to accomplish it. So if it hurts, please stop. Some men are capable of getting their penises between their thighs and can get off by jiggling or squeezing their thighs around their penises. Make sure that you have the testicles out of the way when trying this technique.
Greased Elbows
This is another variation on the above technique although it is not found to be as satisfactory but is less painful. The idea is to insert your penis between well greased elbows. This can be done in a standing, sitting or lying face down position.
Simulated Thrusting
Here's a position you might want to try when masturbation simply isn't enough and you have the desire to thrust as in sex.
After Lubing up, make an open fist, big enough for your cock and place your hand on the corner of a counter, or desk....they are usually perfect height.....Let the edge of the counter rest between your first and second knuckle.......Your hand may move occasionally, but begin to move your cock thrusting upwards slightly in and out and it simulates the act of sex....the ridges of your inner fingers and hand help this along nicely.....leads to a nice orgasm.


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Conscious Sexual Loving

Couples who want to sustain love and passion for a lifetime together, and who are open to new ways to make their sexual relationship richer and more meaningful, may find some valuable lessons in an ancient discipline known as Tantric sex. The Tantric lifestyle derives from a series of Hindu books containing sexual rituals, exercises, and meditations. These ancient books were written in the form of a dialogue between the Hindu god Shiva and Shakti, his female consort.

Tantra is a spiritual system, and in the Tantric teachings, sexual love is a sacrament. But Tantra's goals are more exalted and broader in scope than simply to accomplish proficiency in sex. The ultimate goal is union with God, the cosmic consciousness, or whatever your words are for a higher power. Tantra can elevate a couple's relationship to the level of art; we refer to it as the art of conscious loving. What follows are some of the basic principles and exercises in Tantric sex—steps that all lovers can follow in their dance of love.

THE DANCE OF LOVE

Focusing one's mind on one's partner and nurturing the relationship are at the heart of conscious loving. Therefore, the act of love is performed quite literally with pre-meditation. Conscious lovers ritually designate a time for loving trysts; they prepare themselves mentally for their lovemaking; they prepare a place to assure privacy and comfort; and they bathe and prepare their bodies for the delight and delectation of the other.

In the dance of love, each step has two aspects, the receptive yin and the active yang. And each step has seven gradations or levels of expression-from the slowest and most gentle, or most yin, to the fastest and firmest, or most yang. This yin/yang concept is really the foundation on which the love dance rises to its astonishing heights.

Another important element of Tantric sex is the concept of chakras, or disks of energy, that correspond to specific areas of the body; the base of the spine, the genitals, behind the navel, the heart, the throat, between the eyebrows and the crown of the head.

Each one of the seven chakras represents a different natural human desire—to possess, to copulate, to achieve, to love, to communicate, to understand, and finally to ascend; to exceed ourselves by touching God. The tantric way uses these natural urges in men and women as the basis for establishing a continuously passionate loving relationship.

Kisses can range from a superficial peck on the cheek to a deep, soul shaking experience. Kissing is especially recommended on the seven energy centers, front and back, but kiss any other part of the body as well. Kisses should run the seven-level gamut of expression from yin to yang, from softest to firmest, from most shallow to deepest.

There are five basic methods for kissing mouth to mouth, and they apply as well when delivered to any part of the body. Lipping is the kissing technique partners use to contact the soft, moist inside of each other's upper and lower lips, as well as the drier, rougher-textured outside. Tasting uses the tongue to lick the lover's lips, to touch the inner cheek or explore the upper palate or to caress the other's tongue. Love bites are little nibbles on the inside and outside of the other's lips. The sucking and blowing kisses are a kind of inhalation and exhalation against the lover's lips or chakra areas or across any expanse of skin.

An especially potent kiss is known as the kiss of the upper lip. Your lover sucks gently on your upper lip, using his tongue and lips to draw in on the frenulum, which stretches from the inside of the upper lip to the point on the gum directly above the two front teeth.

As he sucks your upper lip, you suck his lower lip and visualize the subtle channel that runs from the frenulum to your clitoris. Once the channel opens as a conduit for sexual energy, you may be able to experience deep clitoral stimulation-even orgasm from the kiss alone.

The receiving of kisses is as important as the giving of them. Remember that in conscious loving, partners continually change roles as active and receptive lovers, and it is suggested that you share these roles equally.



STEP TWO:

THE CONSCIOUS TOUCH

Touching might be called kissing with the hands. If you can imagine an energetic flow coming from your hands and fingers when you touch another person, you will be able to connect on a deeper energetic level. Touch your lover everywhere, especially on the seven chakra centers. Employ the seven levels of speed and pressure, from the most yin, or slowest and lightest, barely brushing the skin of your lover, to the most
yang, or fastest and strongest. Alternate yin and yang strokes as well as types of touches.

The static touch is performed by resting both hands upon your lover and not moving at all. As your hands lie still, you consciously direct energy from your right hand into and through you lover, then you accept it back into your left hand. The moving touch travels in short or long strokes across the skin or in specific patterns (circles, spirals, triangles, crosses, etc.).

Squeezing includes a kneading touch and gentle pinching. Scratching with the fingernails or tips of the fingers, like love bites, it is usually preferred more yin than yang; most couples prefer to stop at around level five. Tapping or slapping can arouse great passion, and there are obviously certain parts of the body that are more suited to receive

this kind of touch than others. But again, be conscious of your lover's level of tolerance; Tantra does not promote masochism sadism, and this is a dance, not a fight.

There is another yin/yang aspect to touching. As you pleasure your partner with your touch, you also receive sensual pleasure from the contact. Consider it the other side of the touch, and delight in the feel of your lover's skin against your hand, its texture, its softness or hardness, its warmth, and the energy it emits. Your hand, active because it is touching, is also receptive because it is feeling.

Once again, these various means of touching require the conscious participation of both partners as givers and receivers. For instance, when a man bestows a long, smooth caress with the palm of his hand over his beloved's back and down to her buttocks, squeezes the flesh of her buttocks, and continues down her thighs with the slightest possible brushing of his fingertips, he is consciously trying to arouse her passion-her Shakti, or sexual electricity-with his touch. But no matter how good his technique, or how loving his caress, if she is not consciously receptive, if her mind is a million miles away, nothing will happen. The receiver must be as aware of the gift being offered as the giver is of bestowing it because, ultimately, it is the mind that directs the touch, and it is the mind that accepts it.



STEP THREE:

1,001 MOVEMENTS

When describing the steps in the dance of love, it helps to communicate using words with a positive spiritual connotation. Tantrists use old Sanskrit words to describe the male and female genitalia: lingam for

the male sexual organ, meaning literally a "wand of light," or God's organ; and yoni to describe the female genitalia, literally translated as "sacred space."

If toughing is the hand's way of loving, and kissing is the mouth's, pelvic movement is the way the lingam and yoni demonstrate love. We call it the 1,001 movements because in the Tantric texts, 1,001 means infinite. This part of the dance is not for men only, because while it is his organ that dances, it is her yoni it dances with, and in this aspect of the dance of love, as in all the others, the partners alternate the lead

Just as the kissing and touching steps of the dance of love have a variety of yin and yang expressions, so
too do the 1,001 movements. Although the lingam is a yang organ during intercourse, it must manifest both yin and yang energy; it can express the seven levels of gradation by varying depth and speed. The lingam's most yin expression of depth is the shallowest, teasing or rubbing against the vaginal lips; a little more yang penetrates just a little deeper; and the most yang expression manifests the deepest contact.

Even non-movement can become powerfully yang when the man uses his lingam while he is inside to pulse, tighten, or flex. A woman can also become expert in lingam manipulation for her own pleasure, as well as for the delight of her partner.

In addition to the back-and-forth sexual motion, Tantrists also use circular pelvic movements and side-to- side movements. These variations are very pleasurable for both partners, and because they don't encourage ejaculation, as the typical in-and-out motion does, these movements can help to make lovemaking last longer.

Angle of entry also influences pleasure. Varying the angle of entry allows the lingam to contact places it may never have touched before and the yoni to experience levels of feeling it may never have known. And don't neglect the angle of exit, which need not be the same. In addition to these three steps, there are many other Tantric techniques that can heighten the sexual experience.

In addition to these three steps, there are many other Tantric techniques that can heighten the sexual experience.



REACHING NEW HEIGHTS OF PLEASURE
To increase the length and power of your orgasm, start to inhale (as slowly as possible) about halfway into its peak. The building-up feeling of climax will continue for as long as you can sustain the inhalation. When you begin to release the breath, do it with as much sound as possible.

Really sing out. Don't be afraid of your neighbors hearing you—you may inspire them. More important, the volume of your sound influences the volume and depth of your orgasm. But you want to stay in control of the sound and not use it up too fast; the orgasm will last as long as you continue to vocalize it in your exhalation. With practice, both men and women can learn to keep the orgasm going for more than one complete breath, up to four or six, possibly more.

The moral of the story is if you practice breathing exercises to strengthen your lungs and improve your lung capacity, you'll have much longer orgasms, because you will be able to make longer inhalations and exhalations.

And there can be even more to these orgasms than extraordinary length. When you open the throat center, the fifth chakra, with sound, you can reverse the direction of your orgasmic energy, which has been mostly flowing south, toward the second chakra, the genitals. Opening the fifth chakra is like unveiling a magnet, and, in some cases, the force of the fifth chakra's "magnet" is powerful enough to pull your orgasmic

energy into the sixth chakra, the area of the 'third eye," between the eyebrows, and up even further into and out of the seventh chakra, or crown of the head.

Such explosive occurrences are profoundly moving, both physically and spiritually. They are considered enlightening experiences to Tantrists, and can lead to the ultimate Tantric goal of unity.



STIMULATING THE SACRED SPOT
Like the clitoris, the sacred spot (we know it as the G-spot) is a pole for sexual fulfillment in women. Deep inside, protected, the sacred spot is capable of producing the most profound physical and psychic pleasure. But because it is hidden so deep inside, it is often a receptacle for storing all manner of hurtful things associated with sexuality. If that is the case, the spot's negative charge can be shocking-and it is important to know this when you begin the process of arousing it. If a woman has had painful experiences with sex, either physically or emotionally, her first contact with the spot may be unpleasant, even slightly painful. If
she and her loved one persevere slowly and tenderly, however, the sore spot inside her will heal, and with it her past wounds.

The first few times you experiment, the man should begin by using only one finger to make contact. We suggest the ring finger, which is said to have harmonic affinity with the second chakra (the genitals) and is smaller than the index or middle finger. He should slip his finger in gently, and then curl it so the pad of the first joint touches the ceiling of the yoni. Using the same crooked-finger gesture as "comer here", your partner slowly pulls the finger forward along the ceiling toward the front of the yoni, as if returning to the clitoris. Somewhere in this forward stroke-usually about halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the clitoris, in the area of the front wall toward the opening-both lovers will be able to distinguish the
sacred spot.

The heart of the sacred spot does not actually lie on the wall but can be felt through it, and its texture is different from the smooth, silky tissue around it. The sacred spot feels tougher and ridged, or bumpy, like the nipple's areola when aroused, or the mouth's upper palate. The sacred spot varies in size from that of a pea to a half-dollar, and it swells when stimulated, rising slightly in the middle.

The sacred spot can usually take more intense stimulation for longer periods than the clitoris can. In the beginning though, the man must be extremely gentle. His goal should be to charge the sacred spot with positive power, to afford her a healing or pleasurable touch. He should not think about orgasm now. The woman should try not to think at all. She should concentrate on feeling. For her this is a sensory rather than a cerebral pursuit.



CREATING HARMONY:

THE NURTURING MEDITATION

The nurturing mediation is one of the simplest yet most profound of the Tantric secrets for sustaining love's energy in a relationship. It allows couples to communicate on at least three levels: on the conscious level, skin to skin; on the respiratory level, breath to breath; and on the most subtle level chakra to chakra. Over a period of time such regular communication creates a kind of synergy between the partners' chakras.

Couples lie together spoon fashion on their left sides (for reasons of energy flow, according to the Tantric texts). Whoever feels the most in need of nurturing, whoever has experienced the most stress that day, should take the inside.

As you lie together, close your eyes and relax. Quiet your mind by focusing on deep breathing. After a while, become aware of your partner's breath. Two breathing techniques may be performed in this position. The first, used during the first few minutes of the meditation, is called the harmonizing breath. The couple inhales together, holds the breath together, exhales together, and repeats. During this harmonizing breath, the partner on the inside is the receptive body, accepting energy through the back and into the chakras with each exhalation and filling up with that energy with each inhalation.

The second breathing technique is called the reciprocal charging breath. This time one partner breathes in as the other breathes out. During the several seconds that the breath is held, one partner will be holding the inhalation, the other the exhalation. As you practice, the reciprocal charging breath, be conscious of the energy your partner is imparting to you as well as the energy you are giving back.

Before you go on to whatever you have planned for the rest of the day, look at each other. Look into each other. Don't speak, just gaze upon the face of your partner with whom you now feel so ell connected. Notice the light that radiates from your lover's eyes. This light is another by-product of the nurturing meditation; it is the light of love that comes when harmony exists.



EYE CONTACT

Closing the eyes during lovemaking is common among Westerners, but among Tantrists it is considered to eliminate potential for a much deeper bonding. Closing the eyes shuts out the lover and creates darkness during what is a potentially enlightening experience. Conscious lovers should try to maintain contact with each other in as many ways as possible during their lovemaking, and the eyes offer perhaps the most important way of doing so. In Tantric loving, the eyes are considered a primary organ of intimacy. They are not only the gateway, but also a means of extending and receiving energy, especially from the fourth
chakra, from the heart.



THE COUPLE AS A TEAM

Remember that the ultimate goal of the Tantric teachings is unity. Sex is one of the most basic, pleasurable ways of achieving unity, but the principles of Tantra can be applied to other areas of life as well.

Tantric couples often meditate together; they share their thoughts, dreams, fears, hopes, and fantasies. They work together-they may share a career, as we do, or they may do the dishes together, or garden together, or clean out the garage as a team. No matter what work you do as a couple, collaboration is a cornerstone of a good relationship. Working together on a project or at job is symbolic of working on the relationship- paying attention to it, and in so doing, paying it homage. As you work together, whether it be on a mundane chore or on some inspired creative endeavor, you will also be working together toward the goal of
harmony, that honeyed atmosphere in which love grows and passion is an eternal flame.
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THE ART OF KISSING

"ARRANGE IT SO THAT THE GIRL IS SEATED AGAINST THE ARM OF THE SOFA"

The dictionary says that a kiss is "a salute made by touching with the lips pressed closely together and suddenly parting them." From this it is quite obvious that, although a dictionary-may know something about words, it knows nothing. about kissing.

If we are to get the real meaning of the word kiss, instead of going to the old fogies who compile dictionaries, we should go to the poets who still have the hot blood of youth coursing in their veins.

For, instance, Coleridge called a kiss, "nectar breathing." Shakespeare says that a kiss is -a "seal of love. Martial, that old Roman poet who hid ample opportunity to do research work on the subject, says that a kiss was "the fragrance of balsam extracted- from aromatic trees; the rise odor yielded by the teeming saffron; the perfume of fruits mellowing in their winter buds; the flowery meadows in the summer; amber warmed by the hand of a girl; a bouquet of flowers that attracts the bees."


Yes, a kiss is all of these ... and more.

Others have said that a kiss was: the balm of love; the first and last of joys; love's language; the seal of bliss; love's tribute; the melting sip; the nectar of Venus; the language of love.

Yes, a kiss is all of these . . . and more.

For a kiss can never be absolutely defined. Because each kiss is different from the one before and the one after. just as no two people are alike, so are no two kisses alike. For it is people who make kisses. Real, live people pulsating with life and love and extreme happiness.

DIFFFERENT KINDS OF KISSES

Of course, there are different kinds of kisses. For instance, there is the kiss that the devout person implants on the ring of the Pope. There is the maternal kiss of a mother on her child. There is the friendly kiss of two people who are meeting or are separating. There is the kiss that a king exacts from his conquered subjects. But although all of these are called kisses, they are not the kisses* that we are going to concern ourselves with in
this book. Our kisses are going to be the only kind of kisses worth considering . the kisses
of love. The kiss perhaps, that Robert-Bums had in mind when he wrote:

Honeyed seal of soft affections, Tenderest pledge of future bliss, Dearest tie of young connections, Love's first snowdrop, virgin kiss.

The amazing thing about the kiss is that although mankind has been kissing ever since Adam first turned over on his side and saw Eve lying next to him, there has been practically nothing written on the subject. Every year, hundreds of books are published telling you how to reduce, how to gain, how to get a job, how to cook, how to write and even how to live. But, on the art of kissing, very little has been written. - One reason for this lack of proper instruction is accounted for by the Victorian. sense of morals which has persisted through the ages. To the blue-nosed Puritans of the past anything that concerned love was dirty, pornographical. John Bunyan's writings show what these, Puritans thought of' the kiss. He wrote in big infamous "The Pilgrim's Progress," "the
common salutations of women I abhor. It is odious to me in whomsoever I see it. When I have seen good men salute those women that they have visted, or that have visited them, I have made my objections against it; and when they have answered that it was but a piece of civility, I have told them that it was not a comely sight. Some, indeed, have urged the holy kiss; but then, I have asked them why they make their balks; why they- did salute
the most handsome and let the ill-favored ones go." Perhaps old Bunyan thought that way
because be was one of the "ill-favored" who went unkissed and were let "go."

But, nowadays, people have taken a broader outlook on life. Our plays are becoming more civilized and less stiff. Our arts are no more censored by laws. Our books are being written about subjects that no self-respecting author would ever have dared to put into a book. Birth-control, divorce and the science of marriage are common subjects for books. Even the strange vices of mankind are brought out into the open and discussed and not allowed to fester in the dark chambers of censorship. Yes, books like Van de Velde's "Ideal Marriage" and Stope's "Married Love" Ire openly sold in bookstores. But, nowhere, do we find a book which instructs people in the art of kissing, an art which is an absolute essential to a happy -life, as we shall discuss in the oncoming pages of this book. Is it because we are not absolutely freed from the shackles of prudishness? In certain
parts of this country, men have been arrested for kissing their wives on the street! Is this civilization?

So it is, that this book is being written. It is going to be a manual of the kiss. In it we are going to discuss the most approved methods of kissing, the ad' vantages. of certain kinds and, with the disadvantages of others, the mental and physical reactions of kissers, historical episodes of kissing together with examples from the literature of the world in which kisses were the subject. So, gird up your loins, pucker up your lips and let's to the kissing arena!

WHY PEOPLE KISS

What happens when a man and a woman kiss?

That is to say, what happens, to the various parts of the body when two people in love join their lips in bliss? Years ago, before our biologists knew of the existence of the glands in our bodies, one writer quoted a scientist as saying that "kissing is pleasant
because the teeth, jawbones and lips are full of nerves, and when the lips meet an electric current is generated."

What nonsense! what utter nonsense!

In the first place, two people kiss because they are satisfying, a hunger within them, a hunger that is as natural as the hunger for-food, water and knowledge. It is the hunger of sex that drives them to each other. After that, hunger has been satiated, then comes the hunger for a home, for children and for marital happiness. This hunger is instinctive, that is, we are born with it, all of us, and we cannot learn it or acquire it in any way.

WHY KISSING IS PLIEASANT

Once this hunger for the opposite sex evidences itself, there occurs in the human body what is known as tumescence which, in simple language, is the rhythmical contraction of the various muscles of the body together with the functioning of certain glands, just
which glands science has been unable to say definitely. Gland specialists know, by
performing certain operations, that the adrenal, the pituitary, the gonad and certain other glands, control the sexual behavior of human beings. It is these glands that re-act, that secrete what are known as hormones into the blood which, in turn, carries them into the various organs effected by a sexual reaction.

Therefore, it can be seen that it is the partial satisfying of the sex-hunger that makes kissing pleasurable.' Electricity is used for turning motors and lighting lamps and heating curling irons. But electricity 4oes not give complete satisfaction to the kiss.

But enough of dry science!

We have ahead of us pleasurable reading of the bliss of the kiss. Now that we have learned why it is that men and women kiss, let us go into the methods used in. kissing so as to derive the most satisfaction from this most soul-appeasing of pleasures.

APPROVIED METHODS OF KISSING

The only kiss that counts is the one exchanged by two people who are in love with each other. That is the first essential of the satisfying kiss. For a kiss is really the union of two soul-mates who have come together because they were made for each other. The. reason for this is that the kiss is really the introduction to love, true love. The kiss prepares the participants for the love life of the future. It is the foundation, the starting point of sexual love. And it is for that reason that the manner in which the kiss is performed is so vitally important.

There are still young women extant who believe that babies are the result of kisses Actually! this is a fact! And this condition exists because our parents, in the main, are either ignorant of the methods of explaining sex to their children or are too embarrassed to enlighten them. The result is that their children obtain their sexual information from
the streets and alleys or else remain ignorant of it and believe such things as was
mentioned above.

KISSES ARE BUT PRELUDES TO LOVE

Man and woman are born to love, marry and beget children. Woman is so physically constituted that she is the one who bears the child. Man, on the other hand, is given the duty of being the protector of his wife and, after they are born, of his children. Therefore, he must always be the one who takes the initiative. He must be strong, he must be
willing, he must be physically able to take care of his charges, He must be the aggressor.

It is, therefore, necessary that the man be taller than the woman. The psychological reason for this is that he must always give the impression of being his woman's superior, both mentally and especially physically. The physical reason, with which we are more concerned, is that if he is taller that his woman, he is better able to kiss her. He must be able to sweep her into his strong arms, and tower 6ver her, and look down into her eyes, and cup her chin in his fingers and 1 hen, bend over her face and plant his eager, virile
lips on her moist, slightly parted, inviting ones. All of this he must do with the vigor of an assertive male. And, all of these are impossible where. the woman is the taller of the-two.
For when the situation is reversed, the kiss becomes only a ludicrous banality. The physical mastery is gone, the male prerogative is gone, everything is gone but the fact that two lips are touching two other lips. Nothing can be more disappointing.

PREPARING FOR THE KISS

A paragraph back, we mentioned that the woman's lips were slightly parted when she awaited the lips of her lover. There was a reason for using this description. Always, in any sort of kiss, just before the male's lips settle onto the lips of his partner, the female's lips should be slightly parted. One reason for this is that cherry-red lips serve as a charming frame for a row of gleaming, white, even teeth. The picture that confronts the
kisser is one that draws him onward. And even, months later, when he thinks back to the

kiss in the retrospect, he will remember that pretty little picture of the pearls of teeth nestling in their frame of-cherries.

The deliciousness of a long-remembered kiss was beautifully expressed in a poem 'called, "Three Kisses," in which occurred the verse:

I gently raised her sweet, pure face, Her eyes with radiant, love sight filled. That trembling kiss I'll ne'er forget
Which both our hearts with rapture filled.

Another reason for-parting the lips is that there is a definite gratification the male obtains from the delicious odor that emanates from his loved one's mouth. John Secundus, in describing a kiss,. said - that !& lover's kiss was like:

"... every aromatic breeze That wafts from Africa's spicy trees;"

The odor of a woman's hair can send shivers of joy coursing up and down a man's spine. The odor of her body can convulse him with throes of passion. Odors are as necessary to love as is love, itself. That is why it is so essential that the lips be parted just before the kiss. And that is why the breath should be kept always sweet and pure so that, when the lips art opened, the breath will be like an "aromatic breeze." Sometimes it is advisable to touch the corners of the mouth with perfume. But be certain that there is only the faintest suggestion of an odor and no more. Another thing, lipstick is definitely out in the kiss, because it comes off so readily. A very light coat of lipstick should be worn so that, when it does come off, it will not serve to betray you. Similarly, the teeth should be kept
cleaned and polished. Nothing can dampen a young man's ardor, or a young woman's for that matter, than a row of brown-stained, unkempt teeth.

HOW TO APPROACH A GIRL

In kissing a girl whose experience with osculation is limited, it is a good thing to work up to the kissing of the lips. Only an arrant fool seizes hold of such a girl, when they are comfortably seated on the sofa, and suddenly shoves his face into her's and smacks her lips' Naturally, the first thing he should do is to arrange it so that the girl is seated against the arm of the sofa while he is seated at her side. In this way, she cannot edge away from
-him when he becomes serious in his attentions. This done, on some pretext or another,
such as a gallant attempt to adjust the cushions behind her, he manages to insinuate his arm, first around the back of the sofa and then, gradually, around her shoulders. If she flinches, don't worry. If she flinches and makes an outcry, don't worry. If she flinches, makes an outcry and tries to get up from the sofa, don't worry. Hold her gently but firmly, and allay her fears with kind, reassuring words. Remember what Shakespeare said about "a woman's no! However., if she flinches and makes an outcry, a loud, stentorian outcry, mind you, and starts to scratch your face, then start to worry or start to get yourself out of a bad situation. Such girls are not to be trifled with ... or kissed. It is such as they, in most

cases, who still believe the story 6f the stork which brings babies because of the consequences of a kiss.

But if your arm is comfortably reposed across the girl's shoulders and "all's right with the world)" then your next step is to flatter her in some way. All women like to be flattered. They like to be told they are beautiful even when the mirror throws the lie back into their ugly faces.

Flatter her!

Catullus once wrote:

Kiss me softly and speak to me low; Trust me darling, the time is near, When we may live with never a fear Kiss me dear!
Kiss me softly, and speak to me law

"Take a Deep Sniff of the Per- fume In Her Hair and comment On It" Tell her she is beautiful!
Then, take a deep sniff of the perfume in her hair and comment on it. Tell her that the odor is like "heady wine." Tell her that her hair smells like a garden of roses. Tell her anything, but be sure to tell her something complimentary. This done, it is only a natural thing for you to do to, desire to sink your nose deeper into her hair so that you can get the full benefit of its bouquet.

THE TECHNIQUS OF KISSING

Now is your chance I The moment you feel the tip of your nose touch her scalp, purse your lips and kiss her, the while you inhale a deep breath of air that is redolent with the exquisite odor of her hair. it is then but a few inches to her ear. Touch the rim of her ear with your lips in a sort of brushing motion. Breathe gently into the delicate shell. Some women react passionately to this subtle act. Brush past her here in this way again and note her reaction. If she draws her head away, return to her hair and sniff luxuriously of it. Then: settle back to her ear, the while you murmur "sweet, airy nothings" into it. From the ear to her neck is but another few inches.. Let your lips traverse this distance quickly and then dart into the nape and, with your lips well pursed, nip the skin there, using the same gentleness as would a cat lifting her precious kittens.

Then, with a series of little nips, bring your lips around from the nape of her neck to the curving, swerve of her jaw, close to the ear. Gently kiss the lobe of her ear. But be sure, to return to the tender softness of her jaw. From then on, the way should be clear to you. Nuzzle your lips along the soft, downy expanse until you reach the comer of her lips. You will know when this happens because, suddenly, you will feel a strange stiffening of 'her

shoulders under your arm. The reason for this is that the lips constitute one of the main erogenous zones of the body. The nerve ends in it are so sensitive that the slightest contact with them sends a pleasurable thrill immediately through the nervous system, through the medulla portion of the brain, back through the nervous system again, through branches which connect up with motor nerves, in this case the nerves that control the sphyncter muscles of the mouth and lips, and the sexual glands which were mentioned before.

In plain English, the kissee knows she is to be kissed.

Alright. You have subtly kissed the corner of her mouth. Don't hesitate. Push on further to more pleasurable spots. Ahead of you lies that which had been promised in your dreams, the tender, luscious lips of the girl you love. But don't sit idly by and watch them quivering.

Act!

Lift your lips away slightly, center them so that when you make contact there will be a perfect union. Notice, only momentarily, the picture of her teeth in her lips. And, then, like a sea-gull ' swooping gracefully down through the air, bring your lips down firmly onto the lips of the girl who is quivering in; your arms.

Kiss her!

Kiss her as though, at that moment, nothing else exists in the world. Kiss her as though your entire life is wrapped up into the period of the kiss. Kiss her as though there is nothing else that you would rather be doing. Kiss her!

At this point, it is necessary for us to discuss a few subjects which are germane to the art of kissing, particularly in so fir as they apply to what has just been described. For instance, there has been raised quite a full in regard to whether one should close one's eyes while kissing or while being kissed. Personally, I disagree with those who advise closed eyes. To me, there is an additional thrill in seeing, before my eyes, the drama of bliss and pleasure as it is played on the face of my beloved. I can see tiny wrinkles form at the comers of her eyes, wrinkles of joy. I can see fleeting spasms of happiness flit across her eyes. I can see these things and, in seeing them, my pleasurable reactions to the kiss are considerably heightened. In keeping my eyes open, I am giving pleasure not
to one sense alone, the sense of touch, but to two senses, the senses of touch and of sight. These two, coupled with the sense of smell which is actuated by the perfume of her
breath, all combine to make the kiss an exquisite, ineffable epitome of unalloyed bliss.

HOW TO KISS GIRLS WITH DIFFERENT SIZES OF MOUTHS

Another question which must be settled at this time concerns the size of the kissee's mouth. A consideration of this factor is important. Where the girl's mouth is of the tiny, rosebud type, then one need not worry about what to do. Merely follow the directions as they were outlined above. However, there are many girls whose lips are broad and generous', whose lips are on the order of Joan Crawford's, for instance.. The technique in kissing such lips is different.
Different Sizes of Mouths Require a Different Technique in Kissing
For, were one to allow his lips to remain centered, there would be wide expanses of lips, untouched and, therefore, wasted. In such cases,. instead of remaining adhered to the center of the lips, the young man should lift up his lips a trifle and begin to travel around the girl's lips, stopping a number of times to drop a firm kiss in passing. When you have made a complete round of the lips, return immediately to the center bud and feast there. Feast there as did that lover of Fatimas, in Tennysen's poem, in which it was written that: "Once he drew, with one long kiss, my whole soul through my lips-as sunlight drinketh dew."

Then, sip of the honey.

Like the bee that settles on the fragrant pistils of a flower, and sips in the nectar for honey, so should you sip in the nectar from between the lips of your love. And it is nectar. For there is in this mingling a symbol of the holy communion o f the spirits of two
soul-mates, joined together in the bonds of an indissoluble love. It was a kiss such as this which caused the writer of an old German novel to write:

"Sophia returned my kiss and the earth went from under my feet; my soul was no longer in my body; I touched the stars; I knew the happiness of angels!"

ENJOY THE THRILLS OF KISSING

But don't be in a hurry I As in all matters pertaining to love, don't hurry the process of kissing. A kiss is too rapturous a thing to be enjoyed for the moment and the moment only. Linger longer on her lips than you have ever lingered before. Forget time. Forget everything but the kiss in which you are in the midst of. Don't be like that bashful young lover who, after a sweet, long kiss, drew his lips away from the lips of his charmer. Immediately, She burst out into tears.

"What's the matter?" he asked solicitously. "You don't love me I" she said between sobs. "But I do!"

"Then why did you draw your lips away?" "I couldn't breathe," he said naively.
Breathe? Who wants to breathe, who even wants to think of breathing in the middle of an impassioned kiss? Breathe through your nose if you have to breathe. But kiss, keep on kissing, as long as there! Is one minim of breath in you. Kiss, as Byron said we should kiss, with the "long, long kiss of youth and love."

Recently, in Chicago, there was held a marathon kissing contest to determine Which couple could hold their kiss the longest without being forced to separate. One pair was able to hold their kiss for fifteen hours. Think of that! Fifteen hours. And yet the naive lad stopped kissing because be couldn't breathe.

Elizabeth Barrett Browning must have spent many an ecstatic night of kissing with the poet, Robert Browning, if we are to judge from an excerpt from her "Aurora Leigh," in which she described a kiss as being "As long and silent as the ecstatic night."

Another poet, unknown, but certainly one who knew whereof he speaks, wrote the following poem which deserves to be quoted in its entirety.

Oh, that a joy so soon should waste, Or so sweet a bliss as a kiss
Might not forever last!
So sugared, so melting, -so delicious.
The dew that lies on roses,
When the morn herself discloses, Is not so precious.
Oh, rather than I would it smother
Were I to taste such another.
It. should be my wishing
That I might die kissing.

At this point, it should be explained that the lips are not the only part of the mouth which should be joined in kissing. Every lover is a glutton. He wants everything that is part of
his sweetheart, everything. He doesn't want to miss a single iota of her "million-pleasured joys" as Keats once wrote of them. That is why, when kissing, there should be as many contacts, bodily contacts, as is possible.

Snuggle up closely together. Feel the warm touch of each other's bodies. Be so close that the rise and fall of each other's bosoms is felt by one another.

Get next to each other. "Snuggle Up Closely Together"

And, this same thing applies to the mouth in kissing. Don't be afraid to kiss with more than your lips. After your lips have been glued together for some time, open them slightly. Then put the tip of your tongue out so that you can feel the smooth surface of your kissee's teeth. This will be a signal for her to respond in kind. If she is wholly in accord with you, if she is, truly, your real love-mate, then you will notice that she, too,
has opened her lips slightly and that., soon, her teeth will be parted. Then, if she is all that she should be, she should project the tip of her tongue so that it meets with the tip of
yours.

Heaven will be in that union!

Lava will run through your veins instead of blood. Your breath will come in short gasps. There will rise up in you an Overpowering, overwhelming surge of emotion such as you have never before experienced. If you are a man, you will clutch the shoulders of your loved one and sense a shudder course through you that makes you pant. If you are a woman, and being kissed, you will feel a strange languor passing through your limbs,
you-r entire body. A shudder will go through you. You will moan in the delicious transports of love. And, in all probabilities, you will go faint because the blood in your
veins will be rushing furiously into your entire system and away from your head. Thus, you will be unable to think any longer. You will only be able to feel, td feel the most exquisite of pleasures that it has been your lot to feel.

THE FRENCH "SOUL" KISS

But don't stop at this.

Surely, there is more to your tongue than merely its tip. Probe further. Go deeper. Gently caress ,each other's tongues. For, in doing this, you are merging your souls. That is why this kiss was called the "soul" kiss by the French who were said to be the first people to have perfected it.. The French have always been a liberal minded people. And, it is because of the fact that they dropped Puritanism many years ago, that they were able to. perfect themselves in the art of love and, particularly, in the art of kissing.

Learn from the French.

Learn also from the Old Romans , especially Catullus, whose love poems to Lesbia have lived through the ages because of the sincerity of his passion and the genius of his ability
to express his emotions in the form of beautiful poetry. For it was Catullus who wrote:

"Then to those kisses add a hundred more, A thousand to that hundred so, kiss on!
To make that thousand up to a million; Treble this million, and when that is done, Let's kiss afresh, as when we first begun."

Kisses cost nothing. So kiss on. There is one thing that you cannot. take away from people and that is the ability to make love to each other. Despite the fact that the world suffered from a long depression, people continued to get married and they continued to have children. In fact, according to recently released figures, there were, more children born during the depression than there had been in good times. This means that, although married people did not have money, they still had themselves. They still had love. They still had the ability to kiss as they pleased and when they pleased and as often as they pleased.

Another poet asks:

What is a kiss? alack, at worst, A-single drop to quench a thirst, Tho oft it proves in happier hour,
The first sweet drop of one long shower.

Because kisses cost nothing.

So kiss on. Keep on kissing. Rare old Ben Jonson realized this when he wrote that, if he had one wish, it would be that he could die kissing. But it is not only the robust and lusty poets, like Ben Jonson, who are gluttons for kisses. There has been attributed to John Ruskin, an old fogy of a philosopher if ever there was one, a request from him to a young lady friend of his that she "kiss him not sometimes but continually." Still another poet wrote:

Kisses told by hundreds o'er; Thousands told by thousands more. Millions, countless millions then
Told by millions o'er again;
Countless as the drops that glide In the ocean's billowy tide, Countless as yon orbs of light Spangled o'er the vault of night I'll with ceaseless love bestow
On those cheeks of crimson glow, On those lips so gently swelling,
On those eyes such fond tales telling.

PUT VARIETY INTO YOUR KISSES

It is with the last few lines of this poem that our next subject for discussion concerns itself. As was mentioned before, the true lover is not satisfied with only one or two contacts. He wants n6thing to be held from him. It is for that reason that, when kissing a girl, after. you have given sufficient time to the kissing of her lips, you should vary your kissing by diverting your zeal to other portions of her face. Robert Herrick, who wrote,

many beautiful love lyrics in his day, has a poem which ideally synthesizes this idea of varied kisses. In it he says:

It isn't creature born and bred Between the lips all cherry-red; It is an active flame that flies First to the babies of the eyes;
Then to the cheek, the chin and ear;
It frisks and flies-now here, now there-
'Tis now far off, and then 'tis near; Here and there and everywhere.

Let us say that you have revelled in a sweet, long kiss. Suddenly, you see your loved one's eyes close as though in a moment of weariness. Gently detach your lips from her's and raise them up to her closed eyelids. Drop a kisslet first on one eyelid and then on the other. Feel the rolling orb quiver under your lips. Then , when you have done this, run your lips down along the line of her nose, stopping at odd times to purse them into a tiny kiss. When you reach the wrinkle of her nostrils, bury your lips deeply into the curve and kiss little niblets into first one and then the other. If her eyes still are closed, repeat the process.

But return to the lips.

Never forget this important injunction, "Return to the lips," for they can never become satiated with love's ardent kisses. The little kisses that you have deposited on her eyes and her nose serve only to vary the Menu of love. They are but spice to the course of love's banquet which should always be the "lip kiss."

THE VACUUM KISS

The Vacuum Kiss

This time, when your eager lips have been deposited on the eager lips of the girl, try to vary the kiss. For instance' instead of using the soul kiss, try what is known as the "vac uum kiss." Here you start off by first opening your mouth a. trifle just after you have been resting peacefully with closed lips. Indicate to your partner, by brushing her teeth with
the tip of your tongue, that you wish for her to do likewise. The moment she responds,
instead of caressing her mouth, suck inward as though you were trying to draw out the innards of an orange. If she knows of this kiss variations your maid will act in the same way and withdraw the air from your mouth. In this fashion, in a very short while, the, air will have been entirely drawn out of your mouths. Your lips will adhere so tightly that there will almost be pain, instead of pleasure. But it will be the sort of pain that is highly pleasurable. That may sound odd but, nevertheless, it is a fact. Pain becomes so excruciating as to become pleasure. This subject will be gone into very shortly in regard to what is known as the "bite kiss." But, at present let I us continue with the "vacuum kiss."

This kiss must, of necessity, last a comparatively short time. There is tog rill4ch strain on the delicate mouth tissues and the muscles tire very easily. It is .for that reason that this kiss should be shortened. However, there is a special technique to be used to terminating it. When you decide that you have had enough of it, don't suddenly tear your mouth
away. At least, don't do it if there are other people present in the house. For, they will become startled by the sound of a loud report which will result if you act suddenly. Any vacuum when suddenly opened to air gives off a loud popping noise. The procedure is simply to open first a comer of your mouth. You will hear a faint hissing sound when this is done. Immediately, you will find the pressure in your mouth lessen. The muscles will relax. And a delicious sense of torpor will creep over your entire body, giving it a lassitude that is almost beatific.

But that is not all.

To every large dinner, there is always added a dessert or a lagniappe which is a topping- off tid-bit of the evening. The same should apply to the "vacuum kiss." The minute you release Your lips, lift them' away from the tired lips of your lover. Then, without wasting
a minute's time, gently, delicately, softly, sensitively, oh so lightly, lower your pursed lips
and place a tiny little kiss into the almost bruised lips of the girl. It is this little act of sympathy and condolence that makes the tie between you all the more firm. It tells the girl that you know how she feels and that you sympathize with her.

While resting from the joy-laden ardors of such a kiss, a few more variations are permissible and advisable. There should never be a let-down in a kissing session. Every moment must be filled with kisses. But they do not have to be kisses of the mouth. There are other kisses which, although they are not as satisfying as the lip kisses, still serve to keep the blood burning.

THE "SPIRITUAL" KISS

For instance, there can be kisses exchanged merely in intense glances. A sort of "spiritual kiss." can pass between the adoring eyes of a pair of lovers. The hot blooded Latin races know the power of such kisses. Their fiery temperaments are ever questing for new delights, for variations, for delightful and artful ways of adding to the pleasure of love. There is a poem extant written by a young Spanish poet to his sloe-eyed, raven-tressed senorita. No doubt it was sung by him under her balcony while the romantic moon streamed down liquid beams. But the poem quite amply describes this point of kissing with things other than your lips.

Then she kisses with her eyelids, Kisses with her arching eye-brows, With her soft cheek softly rubbing, With her chin and hands and fingers, All the frame of Manuela,
All her blood and all her spirit,
All melt down to burning kisses.

There, Perhaps fifteen feet away from him, was the light of her love. Yet, by means of her eyes, she was able to kiss him so that their love continued to flower.

THE EYELASH KISS

A variation of this eye kiss can be practiced as a tender diversion. After an intense period of "soul or "vacuum kissing" has been indulged in and both lovers lie back tiredly,
looking into each other's eyes , the-young man should lean over the face of the girl. But, instead of implanting his lips on hers, he should bring his cheek into direct contact with her cheek again. Then, when this is done, he should lower his eyelash so that they enmesh with the eyelash of his partner. This, of course, is done one eye at a time. And when the enmeshing process is complete, each should gently raise and lower his or her eyelids. The contact of the hair of the eyelash is one that is almost indescribable. Suffice
it to say, it is a charming bypath in the meadows of love that is pleasant, provocative and yet not exhausting.

THE "PAIN" KISS

A while back, mention was made of the "Pain kiss." It is with this seemingly paradoxical pleasure that we shall deal with now. First of all, it is necessary to explain that, although an act can be painful, it can still be pleasurable. The explanation is merely another indication of the variability of human nature. To begin, there are some people who derive an extreme pleasure out of being whipped or burned or beaten. There is no rational explanation for this strange, delight. The fact remains that they react pleasurably to pain.
These people are called masochists. Similarly, there are other people who derive the same pleasure out of being the ones who inflict pain or perform the beating. Their abnormality,
too, is inexplicable. They are called sadists.

The point is this: these people have these strange desires in extremes. But normal people have similar desires but they are not so strong. They are present only in minute degrees. That is why some of us deliberately uncover ourselves in cold weather or continue to pick at a sore tooth although the act pains us. It is for this reason that most of us are able to derive pleasure from the "pain kiss."

The "pain kiss" is simply a tiny bite, a love nip.

Catullus, who knew his kissing, if we are to judge from the many poems he left on the subject, once rote:

Whom wilt thou for thy lover choose?
Whose shall they call thee, false one, whose?
Who shall thy darted kisses sip,
While thy keen love-bites scar his lip?

THE "NIP" KISS

Horace, another Roman, whose kissing proclivities have come down through the ages because of his love poems, also wrote something about the "nip-kiss" when he said:

Or on thy lips, the fierce, fond boy
Marks with his teeth the furious joy.

So you see, it is perfectly normal people, if you can call poets normal people, who indulge in the "pain kiss" and derive intense pleasure from it. Punishment, after all, can be more than painful. For instance, in another poem, a poet says:

And if she dared her lips to pout, Like many pert young misses,
I'd wind my arms her waist about
And punish her with kisses.

Naturally, in the "nip-kiss" the kisser is not supposed to open his mouth like the maw of a lion. and then sink his fangs into the delicate-flesh of the kissee. Ridiculous! The
procedure is the same as the ordinary kiss except that, instead of closing your lips with
the kiss, you leave them slightly. open and, as though you were going to nibble on a delicious tid-bit, take a playful nip into either the nape of the neck, the cheek or the lips. just a nip is enough. And the resultant pleasure, I assure you, will more than compensate for the slight inconvenience of pain.

Now there might be some of you who may wonder why such kissing subterfuges and substitutes are necessary. It is only that man is a questing animal. He is never satisfied with the ordinary and commonplace because the commonplace, after a time, becomes very boring. Not that I mean to infer that the usual "lip-kiss" is commonplace..
Absolutely not. The "lip-kiss," as I have mentioned before, is the piece de resistance, the
main course in the "banquet of love" as the poet, Qvid, called it. But imagine a meal in
which there were seven courses of filet mignon or seven courses of lobster. You'd get sick
and tired of a tender filet after the third course, wouldn't you? And after the second lobster, you wouldn't be able to look a lobster in the eye, that is, providing a lobster has eyes. So you see why it is that if the lip-kiss were indulged in exclusively, you would reach a point where it would lose all of its rapturous savor.

VARIATION, KISSES ARE THE SPICE OF LOVE

A variation 6f the "lip-kiss" can be performed very nicely. Instead of pressing the lips together at one spot, start at one corner of the mouth and brush your closed lips across the entire mouth. A variation of this, in turn, is to part your lips slightly and, with the tip of
your tongue in the groove that separates the two lips, brush your lips from side to side.
Naturally, .additional variations to this last variation suggest themselves immediately to

the aware practitioner of the kiss. In fact, to such a person there should come up hundreds of other variations to titillate and titivate the senses.

One such variation suggests itself. Technically, it is not exactly a variation but simply a variation in the technique of the ordinary "lip-kiss." It employs the use of the ".delayed action" in its execution. The old story of the fox and the grapes which were tantalizingly dangled over his head is the foundation for the method. Simply, the procedure is this: just before lowering your lips for the kiss, instead of planting the kiss, draw your head back again. Then, hold your lips in readiness but do not-kiss. Hold this position for as long as possible the while you smile tantalizingly into the eyes of the girl. Finally, when both you and she can stand the suspense no longer, then lower your lips, Slowly, as slowly as you possibly can, and imprint the seal of-love onto the avid mouth of your loved one. After that, the technique calls for no specific action. Kissing, like loving, is instinctive.

ELECTRIC KISSING PARTIES

Some few years ago, a very peculiar kissing custom arose which deserves mention here because, from it, we can learn how to adapt the method to our modem devices. At that time, when young people got together, they held, what was then known as, "electric kissing parties." Young people are ever on ' the outlook for novel ways of entertaining themselves. In fact, when ether was first developed as an anesthetic, the young bloods of the town used to form "ether-sniffing" parties in which they got a perfectly squiffy ether "jag." But to return to the "electric kisses." An excerpt from a contemporary writer will, perhaps, give us some idea of what happened.

"The ladies and gentlemen range themselves about the room. In leap year the ladies
select a partner, and together they shuffle about on the carpet until they are charged with electricity , the lights in the room having been first turned low. Then they kiss in the dark; and make the sparks fly for the amusement of the onlookers."

The same sort of experiment could be performed nowadays, on cold, dry nights when the air is overloaded with electricity. But be certain that neither you nor your partner touches each other after shuffling furiously on the carpet with your feet. Merely lean over slowly and, when your lips are about half an inch apart, slow the process down even more until the spark jumps. However, considerable practice should be had before this kiss variation can be done successfully. The natural reaction to this sort of shock is to pull away from each other. But, try to resist this natural impulse because, if you do not kiss the moment after the shock has been perpetrated, the pleasure will be all gone.

Once you have practiced this for Some time, you will become so innured to the slight shock that you will seek more potent electric shocks. These can be obtained with the use of an electric vibrator or in fact, any device that is worked from a battery and a coil which steps up the weak 3 volts of the battery. Shooting galleries have electricity testing devices of this nature which have two handles. No matter what you use, the method is as following: first you take hold of one pole of the live wire, of the handle of the machine, if that is what you are using. Then, your partner should take hold of the other pole, or

handle. This done, bring your lips together until there is about an eighth of an inch separating your lips. At this moment, turn the rheostat that increases the current. As soon as the charge is strong enough, a sudden, intense spark will jump the gap of your lips. Again, learn not to flinch but to seize hold of the opportunity of bringing your lips
together in a grand, climactic kiss. The advantage of this, method is that you can regulate the electrical charges go that, when you become innured to one strength, you can increase the current almost indefinitely.

A word of warning, however, is apropos here. Be satisfied with the current generated by this battery set. Don't be like a young friend of mine who discovered that the battery set, even at its highest output, was too weak for him and his partner. Being of an experimental nature, he decided to see what would happen were he to use the ordinary house current as the electrical stimulus. And so, together with his partner, he placed himself in front of an electric wall outlet into which he had screwed a plug and a wire whose end had been, frayed so that the two wires were separated. Taking hold of one wire, he advised the girl
to take hold of the other., Then, using the usual "electric-kiss" technique, he bent over
and started to bring his lips slowly towards the girl's lips. He got as far as about half an inch from her lips, and that's all. Because, a moment later, he saw a blinding flame sear across his eyes and he felt an enormous blow jolt him off his feet. When he came to enough to realize where he was, he found himself asprawl on the floor, his girl friend in a similar position a few feet away. The result was a pair of burned lips and a combined determination to stick to the old fashioned way of kissing. The burned lip will always spurn the flame.

THE DANCING KISS

The Dancing Kiss

A very pleasant way to kiss is found in the "dancing kiss." Here, again, it is the closeness of the bodies of the participants that adds to the enjoyment. What more could a pair of lovers ask for than a dimly lighted dance floor, the tender, rhythmical strains of a waltz being played by Wayne King, their arms around each other, their eager young bodies kissing each other in a myriad of excitable places, the while, their cheeks meet in
glowing, velvety strokes? Naturally, in such situations, the rules of social etiquette w ill
not allow the pair to enjoy an extremely appropriate "lip kiss." Although this can very easily be accomplished in the privacy of one's parlor while the radio is broadcasting the music. In fact, the "electric kiss" can be ideally performed under these circumstances.
But, when dancing in a public place, the only kisses allowed would be those surreptitious ones stolen under the straying eye of the chaperone. Under the pretense of whispering
pretty nothings into your partner's shell of an ear, allow your lips to touch her earlobe, her cheek and her chin. A few covert eye-kisses, perhaps, can be stolen in this manner, too. But, these stolen sweets should suffice the happy couple until they return home,. Then, stimulated by the forepleasure of these previous non-lip kisses, the pair can indulge in all the variations listed in this booklet, to their hearts' and their lips' content. The while they recall, perhaps, those lines from Sir John Suckling's "Ballad of a Wedding," which went:

Oh, they sudden up -and rise and dance; Then sit again, and sigh, and glance;
Then dance again, and kiss.

THE SURPRISE KISS

A most charming manner of kissing is called the "surprise kiss." This is performed when one of the parties has fallen asleep, on the sofa, let us say. On entering the room, when the other sees his lover asleep, he should tip-toe softly over to her. Then, lowering his head slowly, he should implant a soft, downy, feathery kiss squarely on her lips. This first kiss should be a very light one. -But, thereafter, the intensity of the kisses should increase
until the sleeping one has awakened. and, of course, even beyond that. The effect of such
an awakening to a sleeper is almost heavenly. For, while in the midst of a dream, a pleasant one, most likely, for it will concern the other half of the couple, she feels
vaguely, faintly, as though it were the touch of a butterfly's wing, a subtle kiss on her lips.
Naturally, in the depths of her sleep, she imagines that it is part of her dream and the result. is a pleasant sensation, indeed. Then, gradually, athough still asleep, she feels the kisses continue. And the pleasantness continues. Then, as she starts to come out of her sleep, she realizes that the kisses are to real for a dream. But she is sure that she is dreaming. And so, immediately, a relapse from the happiness sets in and a twinge of sadness comes over her because she knows that', instead of being with her lover, she is only dreaming of him. Imagine, then, her extreme gratification, when, while thinking
these drab thoughts, she feels the actuality of an intense, ardent kiss on her lips. Her heart flutters wildly. Her pulse runs riot. Perhaps she is not asleep, she argues to herself. Then she opens her eyes. And she sees the darling face f her beloved bending over her. And she feels the sensuous touch of his lips on hers. Truly, no awakening can be more pleasurable!

KISSING UNDER THE MISTLETOE

Perhaps, in conclusion, it would be appropriate to make mention of a few kissing customs which have intrigued mankind. For instance, there is the rite of kissing under the
mistletoe, at Christmas time. The origin of this custom is uncertain. Suffice it to say, it
must have been started by some woman because, in, it, She rule is that if a woman is caught standing under a sprig of mistletoe, any man has the right to kiss her,
peremptorily, without asking her permision or begging her pardon. Here is one time when
social convention doses its eyes to lover's delights. For, then, you can seize hold of the girl with impunity and smack her to your heart's content without being socially ostracized for it.

KISSING GAMES

One wonders at the prevalence of kissing games in this civilization. Games on the order of "Postoffice," "Kiss the Pillow" and innumerable others which have been devised for the jovial disports of lovers. In these games, because they are games, it is perfectly

legitimate for two people to lass. In fact, in the game Postoffice" this kissing is
encouraged behind closed doors where- the happy couple are alone in a room. The game
is so widespread that comment in regard to the manner in which it is played would be extraneous here. But, what would make an excellent topping off for this booklet, would be a conjecture as to the reason for the prevalence of such games, even during the. dreaded Victorian -times , when etiquette was so strict that the dictum was made forbidding the placing of a book by a female author next to a book written by a man!

These kissing games existed and shall continue to exist because man and woman must kiss. In fact, man is the only animal who uses the kiss to express his love and affection. Dogs, cats and bears lick their offspring. Horses and cows rub noses and necks. Birds nestle together.

But, only mankind kisses.

Only mankind has the reason, the logic, the happy faculty of being able to appreciate the charm, the beauty, the extreme pleasure, the joy, the passionate fulfillment of the kiss! Nature kisses, in her way, but nature hasn't the brains to profit from the kiss. Only man can do this.
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